A KeyHolder's Handbook: A Woman's Guide To Male Chastity

This book has a lot of information so pick what you both like. I have been married for over 40 year's. Looking for something to bring the spark in the bedroom back. This set fire to the marriage! My wife was not to sure about this and I had never heard of this. But after doing this for 3 weeks we are sold. My wife is old school, she did the house chores I was the man of the house. Now I am jumping up and doing them. I did not make the bed right and I was disappointed when she TOLD me what I needed to fix. She is controlling my orgasm. I have had one. Use to be 5 times a week. I am amazed how I want to please her. She told me yesterday she loves the new us. Told her I wish we had known about this 40 years ago. She was sold when she asked about getting a puppy. I told her I had no say so, it was up to her. It sunk in then for her that I was serious about this. Gotta run got to vacuum before I go to work!

I would consider this a gentle, introduction to male chastity. If you are a male, trying to figure out how to introduce male chastity to your female partner, this book can be of help. It is not a super in-depth guide. I would suggest one or two of the Internet forums for more depth. Books on this topic are often porn in disguise. Dropping one of those on your vanilla partner won't help at all. Ms. Green has written a guide that is basic and should not frighten your future keyholder. To go into greater depth, is in my opinion, impossible for male chastity. There is just too much variability in the partners backgrounds and experience to be able to write an all-in-one conclusive guide. This will get you started. Her descriptions of the chastity experience for both partners is spot on. I had to experience it first hand to accept what she claims. If you have a solid relationship, following her suggestions can lead to better communication between partners, an exploration of new boundaries, and a lot of fun. All of which, lead to a stronger relationship.

I have bought this maybe 5-6? times!?? For several exes, for myself twice (I threw it out once), and my current gf. She keeps it in her nightstand and reads it to me sometimes. The best book of its kind out there. I've bought others.

I knew nothing at all about male chastity or tease and denial before buying this book besides some vids that I had seen. I read through the book and immediately felt like she was reading my mind. She really knows men and what their desires are. I shared this book with my wife and she was immediately intrigued by it and we've started down this journey. The book is short and easy to read. She does a great job of building flexibility into the lifestyle and really makes it easy to follow and explains the "why" behind everything. She also emphasises that there's no pressure on the woman to do anything at all. The no pressure approach really put my wife at ease and ensured her comfort in all of this. Overall it's a great introduction into the life and I cannot recommend it enough.

The information in this book is pretty solid, but it's not for everybody. At times it can be repetitive. So you might find yourself skipping over things you've read already. This book would be best for people already into kinky topics. Less for beginners or the vanilla. The author seems to have a predisposition for guy on guy sexual acts which not anything to do with key holding our chastity play. Don't get that confused. This is very unusual. It is because of this included topic I will not be passing this book off to my wife. She would read it and think chastity is about forced blow jobs. And anal play. So wrong! Not at all what I want. This book is not for beginners. It is for the initiated, people who are into kinky things, but not intended for the hardcore crowd.

Ms. Ivey was in my head. She is well researched and is pinpoint accurate with the male and female Psyche! Ms. Ivey has a vey classy way of presenting topics in an honest, accurate, and even comical way! What a great book!

This book is a beginners guide to male chastity. It is a good read for the serious novice women that's been asked to be a Key Holder. It highlights all aspects of Tease and Denial, Orgasm Denial, Discipline, Humiliation, Cuckolding etc... which we are not into. After reading the book, we seem to be more of a Vanilla couple. We are more interested in the Tease and Pleasure aspect of the game which the book has a small "basic" paragraph on. So, we've decided that we're not ready to exchange "That Loving Feeling" for orgasm denial and being locked up for longer periods of time just yet. But, I will say...when he's locked up and I cant have him...I crave him even more. As for him, well...lets just say he is having a "Hard" time dealing with the Teasing (and Tormenting) while our Pleasure has evolved to another level.

This is a first book with a clear setup of a D/s relationship. Basically, both parts have their rights and their duties. Dom can do whatever she wants (within pre-agreed limits), but She has to keep the sub aroused as much as possible and to provide him teasing sessions regularly and frequently, but without orgasms. Sub has the right to receive a lot of sexual attention from Dom leaving to Her how many orgasms and when he may get and otherwise he is to fulfill any commands and wishes of Her. Seems like a good setup and win-win situation where both parties know what they get for what. I am a sub and I have found this setup extremely attractive and hopefully realizable. I am going to share this book with my wife and I hope she will get on the ideas, too :-)

I'm not the keyholder, but the one in chastity. I give a lot of ideas to my girlfriend thanks to this book. Well written and effective

Comprehensive in all ways without being titillating. Some great ideas to try.

This book is excellent if you are curious about being a key holder. It is very detailed but easy to read.

This book is an excellent advice to the topic, good explanation and description of the possibilities of chastity. Hints for playing with tease and denial.

I have been into the idea of chastity for years and years now. Recently, I finally got up the courage to share the idea with my wife who is very vanilla. She was open to learning more about it, so I went searching for resources and came across this book. I figured it would be best if I could give her something to read on her own time, so that I wasn't smothering her with information on the topic every single day. We ended up reading the book together (separate devices) and over the course of about a month. Looking back now, I think it was very beneficial that my wife was able to learn about chastity on her own schedule. As we read each chapter, I would ask her if she had any questions, and would let her know if there was any subject matter I disagreed with. It was important that we took our time, even though it was really hard for me because I'm like any guy and wanted my wife to buy into this immediately. I'm happy to say that within a few weeks of finishing the book, she agreed to let me buy a device. We took things slow and I tested the device for fit and comfort over the course of a few days. Then we took a break, and about a month later, out of the blue, she proclaimed that she wanted me locked up! I've now been locked for nearly 3 weeks, and she tells me it might be for 3 months! In regards to the material in the book, it's written from a female perspective which is great if you want your wife to be able to understand her role in it all. It covers most, if not all the aspects of chastity and female dominant relationships, but there were a few topics (such as humiliation and cuckolding that I personally am not into). Overall, it's a really good book for a potential keyholder to read.